Be positive

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See the people around you and listen to them. Just analyze their words. See how many people talk about the negative things of others. See the way people act with their children or relatives. Most people apply very rude way of dealing with people. This comes when the thinking is very narrow and negative. One should know that for every good there are bad times too. When people face problems or certain unexpected situation comes then one feels that one is totally unfortunate and words play into their mind. This in long period of time leads to disease like schizophrenia and other mental disorders.

Be strong as everything happens for good only. The nature has created the world in such a state that everything is indeed predetermined. So there is nothing to feel bad or wound oneself at bad times.

As I said earlier that everything happens for good cause I will narrate you a short story about Akbar and Birbal.

Once Akbar and Birbal along with their Armies went into deep forest for hunting. On the way when Akbar was running after a deer he fell down and lost his finger. With so much of tension and sadness Akbar told his Armies “ see I lost my finger”, and was crying and told some of his Armies to get back to palace to get medicine that  could heal it. While everyone was sad and serious over the matter, except Birbal, who was laughing and said relax maharaj, “everything happens for good cause”.

What ??????????? Annoyed by Birbals words, Akbar said I have lost my finger and you are making fun of me. Hahaha…Birbal was still in laughing mood. This angered Akbar so frustrated Akbar ordered his Armies to take and make him upside down, beat him whole night and hang him in the morning.

So the order was carried out immediately and Birbal was taken by the remaining Armies. Akbar was left alone but unfortunately at midnight the tribes caught him and started dancing. They were filled with joy as they found very healthy person and they shouted as the King understood he will be sacrificed the following morning. He tried to explain but failed as they did not understand his language.

The morning was approaching and Akbar could sense his death nearer and nearer. The shout and dance among the tribes increased and Akbar was left with no hope of living now. Suddenly someone among the tribe noticed a wound on Akbars hand and he quickly told his leader of the incident. So they decided that it would be against their culture to sacrifice an injured life, which would bring misfortune and bad luck so they freed him.

Now Akbar realized Birbal’s words that everything happens for good only.

But he was worried that they must have killed or hanged Birbal so he started running as fast as he could shouting Birbal..Birbal..

As he was good runner he reached the spot before early morning and saw that Birbal was beaten and hanged for the whole night and was about to be killed. He immediately told his Army to free him and caught his legs and asked him for forgiveness as he narrated the whole scene.

Birbal smiled and said relax “Maharaj”, everything happens for good.

Akbar was confused, with this mad man whom he told to beat for whole night and to be hanged the morning. So he asked him I did very bad act with you and I had told my Army to hang you and you still say everything happens for good? What is this Birbal? Are you okay?

Birbal smiled and said, ya Maharaj everything happens for good. If you had not told your Army to take me with them, beat and hang then today I would have been hanged not you because it’s you who lost your finger and I was fine. So everything happens for good Maharaj….

So the moral of the story is that do not worry of the things around you. Always have control thinking of everything. Learn to celebrate victories and except defeats.

Good time gives you good memories and bad times give you good morals. So always gather these wisdom and you become wiser day by day.

Now take out one note and list out all your negative thoughts. List all people you hate, bad times and so on. Now analyze why do you hate them? Why you get angry when you see their face or hear their voice. What makes you not to talk with that person? Is it your fault or his? Try to answer all these questions. Think what you will get by not talking or telling bad about that person.

Now think of all good qualities that same person has. Think of time when you had good relations with them. You will automatically find answers for you questions. So similarly do same with each one and try to get answers for each. Just say forget the past and focus on future. Never keep any grudge on them but rather start talking to them and you will notice soon that you will have more friends than before and more people would start liking you. Who doesn’t like to be liked by all?

This is where when you start thinking positive and it will respond into positive results. It works like a magic within no time. The more people you have around the happier you become. It may take some time but it’s true.

So for every advantage there is equal disadvantage and vice versa. So do not be over joyed when happiness comes and too sad when bad time passes by. Everything will be healed by time.

At times we all have to face very sad moments like someone die in your family and it’s really sad moment for you. But think positive that because every rise must fall and every born must die. How sooner or later is god’s will. So no one can stop this natural process that nature has design. So once you face this it’s your responsibility to guide people around and make them understand. Some way or other everyone is very dearer to someone. Everyone is so special even the person you hate is so dearer to someone. So as a whole we all are special and when someone expires or some misfortune happens there is no point in being so much depressed and give up everything. We must learn to move on and life must exist after them and it should too after us. So be visionary and advice your young ones the basic responsibilities and the roles to play even in absence of the other.

At times accidents happen and some innocents become victims of death so we can never bring back the time which has been lost but only thing we can do is to be strong and move forward with hopes that someday may be in heaven we can meet again. I don’t know if heaven or hell exists but faith is the greatest temple which one can worship, so do not feel that you are the only one with such problems. Remember that there are people with bigger problems than yours but still they are living so you have to. People may not be able to help you because they themselves have problem in life. So just chill....Be positive