Listen More
Remember one thing always that when
you talk less you automatically listen more and this is one important quality
that one should have. Most people argue over their point whether it’s right or
wrong. It’s good to debate but bad to argue. So always be sure whatever you are
talking is correct or else do not unnecessarily fight for your point which is
worthless and waste of time. So unless you have enough resource you should not
talk estimating things.
So the best thing to learn is by
listening. Always see what people are discussing and try to learn new things
from them. Try to grab as much as possible and remember those important things
at times to keep it permanently with you. Judge who is a better speaker and who
is wiser. So once you have a habit of listening more you gather more resource
and when your turn comes you will certainly feel very comfortable to give wide
variety of examples and knowledge.
But in society we find this fact
opposite. People want to talk more and listen less and they just want others to
listen. Do not be such stubborn person in society. People may listen for
certain period than start neglecting you. So have a upper limit in speaking.
Try to listen to as many people as possible.
As Abraham Lincoln said to his son,
“hear all men but also learn to filter
them’’. So there are people who speak bad things or languages too. So just
pretend to listen and neglect such stupid fellows. Do not fight or show your
temper as this will certainly not at all benefit you. So be a calm person and
live in your world.
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